Be Mean ....and be liked

This blog starts at a very rough moment , I am trying to get my grip on this excellent typesetting tool and don't guess , its La - Tex . Every other friend of mine seems to be all praises for this and I never seemed to get it , so I decided to bite the bullet and see for myself. There's few things I've already discovered which confirms my belief that this is nothing but a HPIA but here I go again ......being myself.

People get credited for being themselves , more often , they get crucified. Well , being yourself doesn't help for its easier to accept the warm fuzzy feeling down ones spine . " The life of every man is a diary in which he means to write one story, and writes another" , remarks James Matthew Barrie and indeed , its true . What matters is the community , the socialization of the "being yourself " part. Every rebels story is one who has been himself , often for bad , sometimes good came out of it and ( lets coin a term here ) normalizers called them heroes . So in every action you do from the moment your butt sees another morning you are contesting against normalizers. Digressing I am ?, but thats a cats way of putting the fur together.

Most friendly incidents have made my eyes open at the central thoughts . I wonder why does a society have a central thought , guess what perhaps "central tendency" fits better and thats the mean. No, the society is not mean unless you are far from the mean , thats when you are not normal. If you say the same things it believes , if you don't break false warm feelings , if you accept a duplicate identity . "The great majority of us are required to live a life of constant duplicity. Your health is bound to be affected if, day after day, you say the opposite of what you feel, if you grovel before what you dislike, and rejoice at what brings you nothing but misfortune " ~Boris Pasternak observes and theres no tomorrow to this feeling.

The acceptance to the fact that you are not allowed to be yourself comes from talks , discussions and examples. I once had someone telling me " Don't argue with life , give up as fast possible and accept situation " ...it means ..be one of us , trying to make the world a happier place , with the warm fuzzy feeling right down your spine. And often we concede towards being normal , it almost always means having more people to like you and see !!! this loop is closed ...they like you because they see themselves in you , you are no different ...for mean you have become to this huge sample set and guess what ? to be "mean" is to be likable .